Even a beginner can come up with a lot of different ways to stroke the clitoris. Most of the time, the ideal type of excitation depends on the woman’s preference, and the man’s knowledge of intimate fondling. What’s important is that both the man and woman understand that the clitoris is extremely susceptible to touch. Any kind of fondling has the possibility to induce orgasm. The clitoris is the female seat of pleasure so you must know more about the types of stimulation that can ignite climax.
Specialized techniques are needed for expert clitoral fondling. Here are the three general ways of fondling the clitoris…
Kinds of Clitoral Stimulation
1. Manual Excitation
Soft friction over the entire vulva leads to non-direct clitoral contact. This can be done by means of the fingers, or the palm. For the latter, the man can press his palm on the vaginal lips, with his fingers pointing down. The pressure creates sensations on the mound, and the skin around the clitoris presses against the receptive pink tip of the clitoris. Continuing with this can lead to the softer type of clitoral orgasm.
For using the fingers, the man can place the forefinger and the middle finger on both sides of the clitoris and move them up and down on the sensitive skin. A gentle massage with a lubricated finger can also bring about orgasm. Direct fondling of the clitoris is recommended only if it’s already erect and if the fingers are thoroughly lubricated.
2. Oral Excitation
When performing oral sex, there are certain guidelines to follow. Firstly, avoid letting your teeth graze the clitoris. The pain a woman perceives when her clitoris gets nipped is unbearable.. Some women have thick prepuce (the “foreskin” homolog in the woman) and can endure biting for a time, but most women would rather be touched thoroughly.
How about sucking? Sometimes, you will meet a woman who prefers to be sucked than be licked, but to be on the safe side, always start with licking. Gentle licking should be done while the woman is reaching climax, and then sucking can be done when the woman is almost there.
What women want is a tongue massage directly on the clitoris. The common way is rubbing the clitoris with the soft tip of the tongue. To mix things up, the man can drink icy or warm water before doing this. The man can further stimulate the woman by tickling the other parts of the genital area with the exception of the clitoris
3. Mechanical Stimulation
The best way to stimulate the clitoris nowadays has something to do with the sex toys you use. The most well-liked clitoral stimulators are hand held versions and the strap ons. These include the tongue dildo, which is molded like a tube of lipstick and is obviously made for clitoral fondling. Bulkier ones like the hitachi magic wand have rounded, vibrating tips intended for clitoral stroking. The best model so far is the rabbit vibrator. The flaps are for clitoral stroking and the main shaft is for vaginal penetration.